YOU ARE A WALKING CONTRADICTION.
1) this is not a problem.
2) actually, this should be celebrated.
3) you need a coach who understands #1 & #2.
WONDERING WHAT I MEAN? CLICK THROUGH. WONDERING WHAT I MEAN? CLICK THROUGH. WONDERING WHAT I MEAN? CLICK THROUGH. WONDERING WHAT I MEAN? CLICK THROUGH.
I'm ambitious, creative, and hard working. And when I have the energy? Damn does it feel good to accomplish the goals & tasks on my to-do list. I'm driven. I have a ton of ideas. Plus, I like money—and I have bills to pay.
I'm sick of feeling pressure to "be productive" all the time. I'm over hustle culture. Suspicious of self-care capitalism.
T-I-R-E-D. I swear, if I hear "side-hustle" one more time, I will LOSE it, I just...
umm...how are you in my head right now!?
You're a walking contradiction—and there's nothing wrong with you.
You aren't lazy. You don't need to "work on" your self-discipline, or "self-care" your way into a more efficient life. You're not lost, confused, or missing something.
You're a complicated human being, trying to figure out how to "do life" in a culture that insists it shouldn't be complicated. You deserve 1) support and 2) to understand your brain.
Hi, so, I'm Alexis—and that's literally my job.
Support, to help you understand your brain.
I'm a positive psychology certified, ICF-trained, anti-cringe life & career coach obsessed with helping you understand your brain—so you can figure out how you like being alive.
I'm really good at what I do.
But hey, since we don't know each other yet, why don't we ask some of my clients to breakdown their feelings about this whole **waves hands around** coaching thing?
“After reading Alexis' book, I did a coaching call with her—and in just one hour she helped me gain incredible clarity on issues I've been struggling with for years. Her work is absolutely life-changing.”
I'M NOT CRYING,
"Alexis took me from an overwhelmed, deflated, and directionless business owner to a LIT UP, energized, and worthy woman that knows I am capable of damn near anything.
Working with her is like having an evidence-based cheerleader, rooting for you in your corner. She helped me uncover what was holding me back and took a science based, experimental approach to achieving my goals.
I completely pivoted my business and now feel more aligned than ever. 12/10 recommend."
"Meeting Alexis changed my life! I'm literally writing the book I never thought I’d figure out how to write, and finishing my PhD, which I didn’t think I’d ever get up the nerve to do...
As someone who has worked with several types of coaches, no one calls it like she does. Not only am I on my way to achieving the things that I couldn’t seem to do before and wanted to, I also have tools for practicing something I badly needed but didn't think to ask for help on: self-kindness."
"Alexis’ jedi mind tricks (a.k.a fascinating, science-backed Positive Psychology methods) have already improved my life immeasurably.
In a way that doesn’t feel like work, she’s helped me out of thinking patterns that are no longer useful to me, and into a place where I feel hopeful, ready to live in the present—and take on the future.
I can't wait to keep working with her; she’s helping me create a life I’m proud of and love. Alexis is the best, y’all!"
“I got off from our call and literally felt like I could breathe again—the clarity I got from talking with Alexis blew me away.
It was a judgement free zone; she made me feel like I’m enough, just the way I am. And the aftermath? Things that have been weighing me down for 3 years — gone in 30 minutes. She’s brilliant!”
"Alexis drops knowledge bombs that make you second guess everything you've ever done, in the best way."
"Alexis taught me the quickest way of getting over the 'fear loop' in my brain. This has sabotage-proofed my big business dreams and allows me to continue taking action towards my goals. Plus, this practice is rooted in science...so it works every time!
NEW TO COACHING? I MADE THESE VIDEOS FOR YOU. NEW TO COACHING? I MADE THESE VIDEOS FOR YOU. NEW TO COACHING? I MADE THESE VIDEOS FOR YOU.
BUT WHY AM I SWEATING
is it normal to be nervous about booking a call w/ you?
Did you just spend an inordinate amount of time reading and re-reading this webpage and leave the tab open for what felt like two days...but you can't bring yourself to book a free call with me just yet?
*smiles knowingly* Yep, totally normal.
I don't care how many Zoom calls you've gotten used to—reaching out to someone you've never met to:
1) see if you'll ~vibe together~ and
2) to talk about your hopes, dreams, fears, and hangups
— IS SCARY. Exciting, but scary.
Can I ease your mind by telling you how our first call together will go?
After answering a few intro questions (like the nickname you go by, your pronouns, what makes you curious about coaching, etc), I'll shoot you an email and invite you to schedule a free call with me.
The day arrives! We video chat for 20-30 minutes to get to know each other and what you're looking for (it may or may not be a coach.)
If I don't think I can offer what you need, I'll be honest & make a referral, connection, or share a resource with you.
If I do think I can offer you support, we'll discuss my rates (they're sliding scale!) and availability (sometimes I have a waiting list!).
Neither of us has to make a decision on the spot; we'll take at least a day to think things over (and if you invite it, I'll email you my coaching agreement for you to review).
Slimy sales tactics make me dry heave, so you won't feel any pressure, FOMO, or judgement from me.
You will however, feel hugged by the universe. (I have that effect on people.)
So hurry up, let's talk! Your life is waiting.
I AM CRINGE,
BUT I AM FREE