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YOU'VE

SOMETHING.

OUTGROWN

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you've already ✨ changed—you just haven't caught up ⬅ to it yet.
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Maybe it’s an outdated way of thinking about yourself, or about the world. Maybe it’s a set of invisible “rules” that no longer make sense to live by.

Maybe it’s a way of being in relationships, at work, or with yourself that doesn’t quite fit anymore.

 

Whatever it is, your brain is not gonna get on board with fresh goals, consistent motivation, or any kind of “action steps” — until you take the time to catch up with all the way’s you’ve recently changed.

 

Hi, 👋🏻 so, I'm Alexis and that's my job:

Helping you catch up with the behind-the-scenes changes your brain has already made.

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“As a therapist myself, I’m skeptical of coaching in general—but Alexis is the perfect example of coaching done right. Supportive accountability, with tons of breathing room and flexibility for what works for me. I absolutely recommend Alexis to other people!”

—A.H.

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hey, i'm alexis.

As a positive psychology-certified, integrative somatics-certified, trauma-informed, and ICF-trained life & career coach (wheWww, what a mouthful!) my job is to be a mirror.

 

To help you notice the details of who you are now. The stuff you’ve outgrown. The risks you’re ready to take, and the ones that would just be a waste of your energy. To help you turn self-compassion into your default mode—without throwing away your ambition in the process.

 

I'm really good at what I do.

But hey, since we don't know each other yet, why don't we ask some of my clients to breakdown their feelings about this whole **waves hands around** coaching thing?

come celebrate client 🎉 wins with me, while I squirm a little ↘

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 what it's like to work with me.

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Anonymous screenshot of a meme shared by a client with Alexis, underneath the caption, “What Coaching with you is like:”  Square 1: Comic Illustration of a cherubic bird perched on a branch, saying in a pink text bubble, “I hate myself.”  Square 2: The bird starts to say, “No one loves me” and a bigger, yellow text bubble emerges from outside the frame saying “I LOVE YOU.” Square 3: A larger black bird perches on the branch in front of the smaller bird, saying “you so mf precious U cute asf.” Square 4: The larger black bird’s yellow text bubble fills the frame behind the cherubic small bird, who is now sweating. The yellow bubble says “You are literally a fucking human masterpiece I stg AAA”
Anonymous Slack message from a client to Alexis.  Goodmorning. Coffee emoji.  Just wanted to let you know, I’ve never felt so connected to the work I’m doing more than I have working with you. You really bring out the essence of people and put a light on them to shine bright. And what you’ve been able to help me tap into makes me want to happy-cry all the time like the blubbering marshmallow I am. Crying Laughing emoji. Thank you for being you and for teaching me how to embrace myself fully. You’re a really beautiful person, Alexis! I hope you know not only that, but feel it for yourself. Love you gesture emoji. Sparkling heart emoji.
A screenshot of a question and answer from a feedback form.   Question: How would you describe what it’s like to work with me, to a friend?   Anonymous Client’s Answer: You are a delight to work with – you help me see past all the trees to see the bigger picture and what my brain is telling me - both in my energy budget and how my body feels/reacts in situations, and I have started paying attention to those things. I look forward to all our conversations.
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A screenshot of a question and answer from a feedback form.   Question: How would you describe what it’s like to work with me, to a friend?   Anonymous Client’s Answer: Being an entrepreneur can be a lonely, confusing, and emotional journey. Having Alexis to talk things through with, bounce ideas, and get honest feedback from, was just what I needed. I really love how she helped me think through how I can be a more balanced human and business owner. There wasn’t just a focus on making money and success in business - we went much deeper. Alexis is also very responsive and I love how she would thoroughly and thoughtfully answer my questions or give me feedback between sessions.
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"12/10 recommend. Alexis took me from an overwhelmed, deflated, and directionless business owner to a LIT UP, energized, and worthy woman that knows I am capable of damn near anything. I completely pivoted my business and now feel more aligned than ever. "

—L.L.

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 expect the unexpected.

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A screenshot of a question and answer from a feedback form.   Question: Finish this thought: I didn’t expect working with you to be…”  Anonymous Client’s Answer: So helpful for my A.D.H.D!!!!!! Ugh I am so grateful for all the routine-making and planning we did regarding that. It’s been running my life unchecked for so long and it’s soooo obvious where I see it impacting me the most due to the parsing out that we did together.
A screenshot of an anonymous text exchange between a client and Alexis.   Client: Hi. I don’t have the words right now, but just know that the creative process you helped me lay out is quite literally unlocking so much shit in me and for me. Thank you thank you thank you THANK YOU. Three loudly crying face emojis.   Alexis: GAH! This means so much to me, I’m so happy for you! Party popper emoji.
A screenshot of a question and answer from a feedback form.   Question: Finish this thought: I didn’t expect working with you to be…”  Anonymous Client’s Answer: So affirming!
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A screenshot of a question and answer from a feedback form.   Question: Finish this thought: I didn’t expect working with you to be…”  Anonymous Client’s Answer: As relaxed as it was. I felt empowered to let the conversation flow naturally, as if talking to a friend I’ve known for a decade, and our tangents turned out to be just as helpful as “focused” conversation.
A screenshot of a question and answer from a feedback form.   Question: Finish this thought: I didn’t expect working with you to be…”  Anonymous Client’s Answer: So fun? I mean, I guess I did, you seem lovely online, and you’re just as lovely in person and it’s hard to not want to make you my friend!
A screenshot of a question and answer from a feedback form.   Question: Finish this thought: I didn’t expect working with you to be…”  Anonymous Client’s Answer: I didn’t expect working with you to be individualized, personal, and help explain the unexplainable moments of life.
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"I got off from our call and literally felt like I could breathe again. It was a judgement free zone; she made me feel like I’m enough, just the way I am. The clarity I got from talking with Alexis blew me away. Things that have been weighing me down for 3 years, gone in 30 minutes.  She’s brilliant!

—I.K.

 ok but why am i sweating, alexis?

Did you just spend an inordinate amount of time reading and re-reading this webpage—and leave the browser tab open for what felt like two days—but you can't bring yourself to book an intro meeting with me just yet?

*smiles knowingly*  Yep, totally normal. ​

I don't care how many Zoom calls you've gotten used to; reaching out to someone you've never met to 1) see if you'll ~vibe together~ and 2) to talk about your hopes, dreams, fears, and hangups IS SCARY. Exciting, but scary.

 

Can I ease your mind by telling you how our first call together will go?

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"After reading Alexis' book, I did a coaching call with her—and in just one hour she helped me gain incredible clarity on issues I've been struggling with for years. Her work is absolutely life-changing.

—L.F.

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 worth the investment.

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